Elizabeth Verdick Books

Self on the Shelf

“Self on the Shelf with Elizabeth Verdick” originally appeared in Bookology Magazine. Copyright © 2020 by Winding Oak LLC. All rights reserved. When I picture myself as a kid, I think of my bedroom in our split-level West Virginia house, a room I loved but had to leave behind at age eleven when my family moved to Maryland. For years, that room was my own little world, my book nook, my place to cuddle my cat Rag, collect china-cat figurines, and, yes, read books about cats. Was I feline-obsessed? Yes! But I won’t bore you with the list of cat-oriented fiction and nonfiction I consumed as a child. You might

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Stress Management Strategis for Kids

5 Stress Management Strategies for Kids

“5 Stress Management Strategies for Kids” originally appeared at freespiritpublishingblog.com. Copyright © 2020 by Free Spirit Publishing. All rights reserved. Experts say kids are more stressed today than ever before. That’s no surprise. We see the fast-paced, competitive, tech-savvy world they’re growing up in. We’ve heard the stories about kids getting bullied, struggling academically, being exposed to violence at home or school, dealing with economic uncertainty, and worrying about the environment or conflicts in their communities and country. That’s a lot to carry on small shoulders. There’s a lot at stake too. According to Bruce Compas, professor of psychology at Vanderbilt University’s Peabody College of Education and Human Development and

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Bullying and Autism: How to Spot It - and Stop It

Bullying and Autism: How to Spot It—and Stop It

1 in 3 students are bullied during the school year. 1 out of 4 are bullied every day. Those with autism are especially at risk for being bullied. Bullying is when one student, or a group of students, purposely and repeatedly targets another student in a way that causes physical, social, or emotional harm. The ones doing the bullying usually have an advantage of some kind over those being bullied: size, strength, or popularity. As moms, we’re angered and saddened by the bullying statistics we see. As moms of sons on the spectrum, we can’t help but worry—a lot. Kids with ASD (autism spectrum disorder) are often easy targets because

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The Real Boy

Elizabeth Verdick: A Look at “Autism Fiction”

“Elizabeth Verdick: A Look at “Autism Fiction”” originally appeared in Bookology Magazine. Copyright © 2020 by Winding Oak LLC. All rights reserved. I spent the month of April reading children’s fiction featuring characters with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). April was Autism Awareness Month, but that wasn’t my only motivation. I love children’s literature, I have written nonfiction about ASD, and I’m raising a son who’s on the autism spectrum. I wondered, Which middle-grade stories could I hand him, saying, “I think you’ll really like this”? I read the books with zeal — and growing discomfort. Why did many portrayals of characters with ASD lack the authenticity one yearns for in fiction? Why

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Hula hoop

Summer Spectrum-style

“Summer Spectrum-style” originally appeared at freespiritpublishingblog.com. Copyright © 2020 by Free Spirit Publishing. All rights reserved. Keeping kids active and safe in the summer is a challenge for all parents. For those with kids on the autism spectrum, some extra planning can help make the shift into a summer routine easier on their child, and on themselves. Two of Free Spirit Publishing’s autism experts offer some practical suggestions. Listen to the podcast below:   Elizabeth Reeve, M.D.: Summer is here and for most of us that means sunshine, vacations, and a change in the daily routine. But if you have a child or teen on the autism spectrum, summertime may

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Reading with autistic child

Caring for the Caregiver

“Caring for the Caregiver” originally appeared at freespiritpublishingblog.com. Copyright © 2020 by Free Spirit Publishing. All rights reserved. Your 13-year-old daughter just spent 45 minutes in the bathroom doing her hair while texting her friends in anticipation of her first big middle school dance. She’s focused on how she looks and wants to make a big impression tonight. Down the hall, your 18-year-old son with autism emerges from the other bathroom after a shower, having once again forgotten to wash his hair. He’s wearing the same clothes he had on before he took his shower. You notice the stain on his shirt from last night’s dinner. You approach him with

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Cat and Christmas Tree

Holiday Chaos! Preparing Children with Autism for the Disruptions of the Holidays

“Holiday Chaos! Preparing Children with Autism for the Disruptions of the Holidays” originally appeared at freespiritpublishingblog.com. Copyright © 2020 by Free Spirit Publishing. All rights reserved. Here come the holidays! If you’ve got a child who’s on the autism spectrum, life is about to get complicated all over again because of the disruptions to family routines. ’Tis the season to stay sane—the key is preparation. Hosting Some families find that it’s easier to host the holiday dinners so they can choose the menu, particularly if their child is on a gluten-free diet or is a picky eater. If you’re hosting, give your child lots of opportunities to practice table manners

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Boyhood

5 Simple Ways to Support Parents of Children with Autism

“5 Simple Ways to Support Parents of Children with Autism” originally appeared at freespiritpublishingblog.com. Copyright © 2020 by Free Spirit Publishing. All rights reserved. April is National Autism Awareness Month. April 2 is World Autism Awareness Day. But as we parents of children on the spectrum know, autism is every day, 24/7. We love our children, we’re working hard to help them face their challenges—and we need help. What can you do? It can be as simple as supporting a friend, neighbor, or colleague whose child has a diagnosis of autism spectrum disorder (ASD). 1. Be a good listener: Sometimes, the topic of autism is a thorny one. Parents might

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The Survival Guide for Kids with Autism Spectrum Disorder (and their Parents)

Telling My Son He Has Autism

“Telling My Son He Has Autism” originally appeared at freespiritpublishingblog.com. Copyright © 2020 by Free Spirit Publishing. All rights reserved. My son Zachary was diagnosed with autism before his third birthday. It was a devastating day for our family—and a defining moment. There was no time to let the news sink in. We had a lot of work to do. So began a long process of learning about the mysterious condition experts now call autism spectrum disorder (ASD). At first, I went online to do research and then I ordered every book on autism and Asperger’s I could find. I located a parent support group. I hired a team of

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